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Adelaide Sex Therapy & Trauma Counselling | Psychotherapy

A place to heal. Grow. Recover.

Specialist support for sex, intimacy, trauma and emotional wellbeing.

In person in Goodwood or virtually, wherever you are.

 

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Welcome to Polysoma

At Polysoma, you’re not just another person — and this is not another counselling practice.

I work with people navigating some of the most vulnerable and often unspoken parts of being human — sexuality, intimacy, trauma, and the weight of experiences that don’t always have words yet. I work with the whole of you, not just your mind. And whoever you are, whatever you’re carrying — you’re welcome here.

I’m Kai — sex therapist, psychotherapist and counsellor. My qualifications span counselling, psychotherapy, sexology and trauma practice, and my approach is integrative, trauma-informed and person-centred. I’ll work closely with you at a pace that feels right, with care and without judgement.

At Polysoma, you’re not just another person—and this is not another counselling practice. Envision a reimagined mind-body health sanctuary,

KaiBClinPrac, MCouns, GradCertSexol

My practice

I see clients at my practice in Goodwood, Adelaide — 5 minutes from the city — and offer virtual sessions for clients across Australia and around the world.

Reasons to work with me:

Reasons to work with me:

  • I work with the whole of you — not just your mind.
  • Specialist, trauma-informed care across sexuality, intimacy and mental health.
  • Lived experience alongside clinical expertise — I understand what you might be going through.
  • Affirming and inclusive — everyone is welcome, exactly as they are.
  • Person-centred and at your pace — you’re always in control.
  • Adelaide’s foremost psychosexual therapist specialising in the complex intersections of pain, trauma and sexual concerns.
What I work with:

What I work with:

For full details visit the Professional Services page here. 

  • Sexual health, function and wellbeing.
  • Intimacy, desire and connection.
  • Trauma, recovery and post-traumatic growth.
  • Mental health and emotional wellbeing
  • Chronic pain and its emotional impact.
  • Sexuality, identity and gender.
  • Problematic or harmful sexual behaviours — support for change.
How can I help:

How can I help:

  • Make sense of what you’re experiencing and why.
  • Work through trauma, shame and the experiences that have shaped you.
  • Explore your sexuality and relationships without judgement.
  • Reconnect with your body and develop a sense of embodiment.
  • Build self-awareness, self-compassion and emotional resilience.
  • Develop strategies to self-regulate and manage difficult emotions and experiences.
Who I work with:

Who I work with:

Everyone is welcome at Polysoma — no exceptions.

  • People of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship structures.
  • LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples.
  • People in ethically non-monogamous relationships.
  • Neurodivergent clients.
  • NDIS participants.
  • Anyone who has felt too complex, too ashamed, or too much for other spaces.
  • Adults aged 21 and over.

This is an affirming, inclusive practice. Whatever you’re carrying and whoever you are — you belong here.

Ready to become a new client?

 

I am currently welcoming new clients. No referral needed — you can book directly.

Get Started

I am a private practitioner. No Medicare rebates available. Mental Health Care Plans not accepted. NDIS participants welcome.

How it works

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Click get started. Choose a day and time that suits you, complete your registration, and secure your session with payment.

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Before we meet you’ll receive a services agreement and a set of personalised questionnaires to complete — helping us make the most of our time together from the very first session.

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We begin the work — together, at your pace, with nothing rushed and nothing pushed. Just steady, careful progress toward where you want to be.

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Testimonials

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I have benefited greatly from Kai's expertise, wisdom and body awareness. Trauma and chronic depression had significantly impacted my confidence; personally, and sexually. Kai has combined extensive knowledge, insight and great intuition to take me to a place I thought I could never return to.

Mr.R

I feel more in tune with my body even non-sexually, the breathwork has made me feel more connected to myself in everyday life and been a positive addition to my self-pleasuring as well. It was probably one of the easiest and most comfortable connections I’ve had talking with anyone.

She/Her Anonymous

Kai’s profound understanding and extensive knowledge of sex and sexuality gave me the confidence to openly discuss my shame around sensuality, sexual expression, intimacy and my body. In his unique intuitive way, Kai directed me away from the shame ingrained by a conservative upbringing, into the curious exploration of my sexuality.

Mr M.
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Every body. Every story.

 

 

My practice is built on respect, inclusion, and safety — for every body, every background, every story. I am committed to practising in ways that are culturally safe, trauma-informed, and affirming of all identities and lived experiences, holding space for all people with humility and without judgement.

Life leaves its marks. So does resilience. You don’t have to carry them alone.